In life, we always meet a few people who are particularly disgusting. You may think that such people are super rational, but they are not. They cannot even adapt to society. These people lack good emotional judgment and it is difficult to decide what is really important, so earning a dime for them is as important as making a million.
What should we do to deal with these people who often make you difficult?
Maintain Demeanour, Be Calm
In the face of deliberate martyrdom, we must always maintain personal cultivation and maintain personal demeanour. Don’t be too eager, not humble, and treat people who give us martyrdom. Don’t let the other person feel our anger, let alone write your dissatisfaction in your face. We must do our best to maintain our demeanour, not to color the object of martyrdom, or even to face anger. This is very irrational and uncool. It will also make people who make us difficult to achieve their goal of being less wise and righteous.
Do not shout, Don’t Get Angry
Since it is difficult, it is rarely based on facts. In the face of deliberate martyrdom, we should keep silence appropriately and do not use shouting to deal with martyrdom. In social situations, yelling is very uncultivated manifestations. People who make you hard are hoping that you will lose. Demeanour, it seems that lack of cultivation. Therefore, at the right time, choosing to use silence to respond to martyrdom is also a very good method.
Humour Answer, Don’t be Absent-Minded
The martyrdom often comes from our superiors, colleagues, and the objects of communication. When we don’t know whether it is intentional or difficult to do so, don’t just treat the other party as an “enemy.” In the face of martyrdom, we try to answer in humour and sincerity is the main thing. We should not treat each other with an absent-minded attitude and let the other party feel that we do not care and ignore. Humour has a very magical power that not only resolves contradictions, but also turns the enemy into friends.
Counterattack, Do not Always Escape
Some martyrdom is very malicious. In the face of these martyrdom, we must not evade and make concessions, but give appropriate counterattacks. We must grasp the intensity of counterattacks that are difficult to fight, and ensure that they are stable and accurate. They effectively counterattack the people who have made us difficult to fight and are good at countering martyrdom. While protecting self-interest and dignity, they also give each other a powerful lesson.
Sometimes managing your emotions alone is enough to solve the problem, but at other times it is not enough – you need to deal with trouble through actions. Depending on the circumstances.