Family education and school education are no different in importance. It is complementary to school education.
Children have the instinct to imitate. When child started to learn the language, child likes to learn the adult’s every move. Therefore, in a family, if children are to be self-sufficient, they should start with their own hands and ask their children to get rid of bad habits. If parents have hobbies such as smoking gambling, they must first quit themselves; if there is a conflict of opinion between parents, it is necessary to seek a peaceful solution from the situation, and should not make children aware of or see their positive conflicts. Because children’s every move to their parents is considered correct, they are trying to imitate. If the child loses his beliefs after escaping the weaknesses, even if there is good deeds in the future, they will be seen as bad behaviours by their children, and they will be imitated. Therefore, parents must create a power of faith.
Many parents who treat their children are often not overly affectionate. They are overly strict, demanding and reckless, or they take a laissez-faire attitude.
Truly loving parents, should ask for their children’s requirements, and how to respond to what they want, is really a good job. Then they develop a habit of pride for their children. If you encounter something unsatisfactory in the future, you will lose your temper. In the family,
Parents who are overly demanding, and disciplined their children, use harsh and high-pressure, and use imperative tone to give a prison-like life. This kind of education law can cause pain in the hearts of children. They don’t get the family’s fun and warmth, only the parents are terrible. So hatred was born of fear, In the future, children will regard their parents as old-fashioned.
Teach What is Life
Let the children do some housework that they can, It is important to develop the hardworking habits of children. You can ask them to study about dressing, folding clothes, sweeping the floor, dusting, and sorting things. When their work is done satisfactorily, they must be rewarded. Children are mostly victorious, so it is better to reward them than to punish them more; but when rewarding, you should use opportunities, guide and encourage them. to make him realize that he is a member of the family.
Academics are important, but interest is the source of creativity. What the society needs now is not a reading machine, but a generalist who is fully developed. Therefore, if the child shows a certain aspect of hobbies, do not interfere, but should encourage him, maybe even become a child’s skills.
When Chanting Evil, Be Good
To do evil is good, to remove bad habits and to do good things. Teach children to pay attention to their words and deeds whenever and wherever they want. They use selfish possessiveness to test the child’s love for himself in this despicable way. I don’t know if this kind of slap in the face is a bad thing, it is a mistake.
There are many children who use temper tantrums to achieve his desire. When we meet such a child, don’t give up on him because of his temper, and make concessions to him to meet his requirements; but don’t be angry with him and beat him. The more he is tempered, the more we have to remain calm and to make a rude look, so that he can understand that he can’t get any benefit from losing his temper.
We want children to know that no matter who they are, they must be polite. When you meet a relative and a friend, you must teach him to call him. You should be thankful for accepting gifts or goodwill from others. Guests are welcome to entertain. This kind of kind should always teach him so that he has the concept of respecting the elders, helping the weak, and loving the poor.